I met a lady who I have been chatting with for about a month. We met for drinks and it appears that her divorce is not final. She came across as being very angry with her soon to be ex-husband, which I can understand. I get the distinct feeling that she would reconcile if he was willing.
About half-way through the date she basically told me she really just wants a friend-with-benefits. A year or two ago I would have jumped on that train in a New York minute. Right now I just don't want to play with that kind of fire. I have done that before and in the end sex does something to a woman, they get emotionally involved and in the end want more than a friendship. I think at this point I will probably shoot myself later because it has been a few months for any kind of physical intimacy. The problem is I would not consider it an intimate encounter, it would just be physical sex and that is not what I am looking for right now.
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