Ok, well now after a few dates with a lady I am really interested in, she let me know that she has rules when it comes to physical relationships. Essentially no sex until you are in a committed relationship. Essentially she wants to wait until we have dated 90 days and then we will determine if we are in a serious relationship. I respect her wishes and I would like to see where things lead, but this is going to be difficult.
She told me about all the stupid things other guys have said or the ways they have tried to manipulate things, so I can understand her apprehension about getting physical early. We even talked about the 3rd date rule (or 5th date rule if you are conservative). I thought about it and essentially most women give up within the first 5 dates. That is what got me into trouble in my last relationship.
For now I am going to abide by the rules and see what happens.
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